Starting the Year Gently (and on Purpose)
- Simone
- Jan 6
- 2 min read

The first week of January is strange. The world expects momentum. Fresh goals, big energy, and clear plans. But internally, many of us are still catching up. We are still grappling with the lessons learnt from last year to what we actually want next. So what can you do now?
You don’t need a full plan yet
There’s pressure to know:
• Where you’re going
• What you want
• How this year will look
But clarity doesn’t appear on January 1st. It emerges through small, honest decisions. So ,instead of asking, 'What do I want to achieve this year?' try: "How do I want this year to feel?" Think about calm, focused, expansive, grounded, playful, or steady. Because feelings are easier to align with than rigid goals.
Choose direction before goals
Goals without direction create noise. Direction creates coherence. When direction is clear, goals follow naturally. So your direction might look like:
• More depth, less speed
• Fewer commitments, but better ones
• Consistency over intensity
• Learning before scaling
The power of one intentional shift
Keep it simple and small. You don’t need ten habits or a complete overhaul.
One shift, boundary, routine or decision is enough. So ask yourself: What is one small change that would make my days feel more aligned? That answer is usually closer than you think.
Move forward — with awareness
This year doesn’t need to be perfect. It needs to be intentional.
Let it be shaped by:
• What you’ve learned
• What you’re ready for
• What you no longer want to carry
You’re allowed to start quietly.
Reflection prompt What one word would you choose for this year, and why?




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